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<channel><title><![CDATA[Love Moves.Us - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 09 Mar 2026 18:31:28 -0500</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Reflecting on a Year of Impact and Gratitude at LoveMoves.Us]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/reflecting-on-a-year-of-impact-and-gratitude-at-lovemovesus]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/reflecting-on-a-year-of-impact-and-gratitude-at-lovemovesus#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2026 20:37:49 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/reflecting-on-a-year-of-impact-and-gratitude-at-lovemovesus</guid><description><![CDATA["We attended our first group, and it was literally a breath of life. We left feeling so supported, refreshed, and understood."&#8203;When you pause and look back over the past year, what are you grateful for?At LoveMoves.Us, one of the things we&rsquo;re most grateful for is you &mdash; your engagement, support, and generosity have made an incredible difference for families in our programs.Here&rsquo;s a glimpse of the impact you&rsquo;ve helped create:41 parents empowered through our Cultivate  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><em><font color="#000000">"We attended our first group, and it was literally a breath of life. We left feeling so supported, refreshed, and understood."<br />&#8203;</font></em><br /><font color="#000000">When you pause and look back over the past year, what are you grateful for?</font><br /><font color="#000000">At LoveMoves.Us, one of the things we&rsquo;re most grateful for is <strong>you</strong> &mdash; your engagement, support, and generosity have made an incredible difference for families in our programs.</font><br /><font color="#000000">Here&rsquo;s a glimpse of the impact you&rsquo;ve helped create:</font><ul><li><font color="#000000"><strong>41 parents</strong> empowered through our <em>Cultivate Connection</em> program to care for the complex needs of their children.</font></li><li><font color="#000000"><strong>65 children</strong> cared for in attachment-rich, trauma-informed, healing, and evidence-based ways.</font></li><li><font color="#000000">New families discovering support through our <strong>Family Gatherings</strong>.</font></li><li><font color="#000000">Parents enjoying a much-needed break at our <strong>Parents&rsquo; Night Out</strong> events.</font></li><li><font color="#000000">Fun summer days filled with <strong>pool parties, skating, baseball, and beach outings</strong> that built community and connection.</font></li></ul> <font color="#000000">We&rsquo;re especially grateful for volunteers who make these experiences possible. Matt Krogh began and led a LoveMoves.Us Family Gathering in his community from 2018 through May 2025, and now Jolene Muniz is continuing that important work.</font><br /><font color="#000000">Your impact goes beyond just attendance. Every family who participates in a Family Gathering feels seen, supported, and loved &mdash; all because of people like you.</font></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><strong><font color="#000000" size="5">Volunteer Spotlight</font></strong><br /><br /><font color="#000000"><font size="3">Volunteers come in all forms. You don&rsquo;t have to foster or adopt to make a difference:</font></font><ul><li><font color="#000000"><strong>Missy and Joanna</strong> in Munster faithfully serve each month in our children&rsquo;s program, leading activities and giving parents the support they need to attend Family Gatherings.</font></li><li><font color="#000000"><strong>Kim Simmons</strong>, a school psychologist and hostess at our Joliet location, helps with meals and guides families whose children face significant behavioral challenges at school, assisting with meetings, advocacy, and securing proper 504 plans and IEPs.</font></li></ul> <font color="#000000">Their dedication is a beautiful reminder that <strong>every act of service matters</strong>.</font></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><strong><font color="#000000" size="5">Looking Ahead to 2026</font></strong><br /><br /><font color="#000000">In the year ahead, Carl will carry the values of LoveMoves.Us forward, ensuring parents and families are deeply cared for and volunteers are supported. With new systems, funding streams, and leaders, 2026 promises to bring <strong>even more Family Gatherings in new locations</strong> &mdash; opportunities made possible because of your generosity.</font><br /><font color="#000000">The ways to invest in children&rsquo;s lives are plentiful, and your support ensures these opportunities reach the families who need them most.</font><br /><font color="#000000">Thank you for helping bring <strong>hope, healing, and connection</strong> to hundreds of children!</font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[“You Saved Our Family”: How Your Generosity Changes Lives]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/you-saved-our-family-how-your-generosity-changes-lives]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/you-saved-our-family-how-your-generosity-changes-lives#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 13:07:24 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/you-saved-our-family-how-your-generosity-changes-lives</guid><description><![CDATA[ A Cry for Help in the Middle of the Holidays&ldquo;Our family would not be thriving without Love Moves Us. We are forever grateful for the love, support, and education that we&rsquo;ve gotten from LMU. You saved our family.&rdquo;Do you get feelings of nostalgia, joy, celebration, and togetherness during the holidays? If you grew up in a healthy, loving home, you probably do.But for many who foster or adopt, the holidays can bring emotions and behaviors that leave them baffled and unprepared. T [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:57px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:20px;*margin-top:40px'><a><img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/published/img-9108-1.jpeg?1763991255" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 10px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -0px; margin-bottom: 0px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;display:block;"><font color="#000000"><font size="5"><strong>A Cry for Help in the Middle of the Holidays</strong></font><br />&ldquo;Our family would not be thriving without Love Moves Us. We are forever grateful for the love, support, and education that we&rsquo;ve gotten from LMU. You saved our family.&rdquo;<br />Do you get feelings of nostalgia, joy, celebration, and togetherness during the holidays? If you grew up in a healthy, loving home, you probably do.<br />But for many who foster or adopt, the holidays can bring emotions and behaviors that leave them baffled and unprepared. Two young kids screaming, throwing toys, and overturning furniture in a rage like you&rsquo;ve never seen before in a child&mdash;and for the third time that day. You&rsquo;re exhausted, sick, and completely unsure what to do next.<br />You love these kids with everything in you, but nothing seems to be working or helping. You find yourself wondering, &ldquo;What have we done? Are we failing them?&rdquo;<br /><br /><font size="5"><strong>Rich &amp; Elizabeth&rsquo;s Breaking Point</strong></font><br />That&rsquo;s how Rich and Elizabeth felt. They had opened their hearts and home to two boys who desperately needed family&mdash;but the boys reacted explosively at the simplest &ldquo;no.&rdquo; They were in constant crisis and questioning their decision.<br />Feeling like &ldquo;the worst parents,&rdquo; Elizabeth googled &ldquo;foster support groups&rdquo; and found LoveMoves.Us. She decided to attend a Family Gathering one cold January night.<br />That night changed everything.<br /><br /><strong><font size="5">Finding Understanding and Support</font></strong><br />For the first time, they found people who understood what they were going through. People who didn&rsquo;t judge, but listened and empathized. They learned practical, helpful tools that began to change their family and bring healing.<br />They drove home that evening with tears of relief, and the boys fell asleep peacefully in the back seat.<br /><br /><strong><font size="5">Because Community Matters</font></strong><br />When parents find hope, healing, and community, everything begins to shift. Children feel safe enough to trust again. Homes become calmer, more connected, and more resilient.<br />Today, Rich and Elizabeth&rsquo;s family is thriving. They&rsquo;re building a secure attachment with their kids. The boys have fewer meltdowns, and they all enjoy connection. Elizabeth says, &ldquo;I can confidently say our family would not be in this place without LoveMoves.Us.&rdquo;<br /><br /><font size="5"><strong>A Big Step Forward: Our New Program Director</strong></font><br />To help reach and equip more parents to understand how trauma has impacted their children&mdash;and how to promote healing through connection&mdash;we recently hired a full-time program director.<br />This will help more children feel safe and cared for, and give parents the knowledge and tools they need to support healing in their homes.<br /><br /><font size="5"><strong>Thank You for Being Part of This Community</strong></font><br />Whether you attend gatherings, volunteer, donate, share resources, encourage other families, or simply stay connected with our mission, you are part of what makes stories like Rich and Elizabeth&rsquo;s possible.<br />We are grateful for you and look forward to continuing this work together&mdash;one family at a time.</font></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Because of You, Families Feel Seen and Supported!]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/because-of-you-families-feel-seen-and-supported]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/because-of-you-families-feel-seen-and-supported#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2025 19:57:34 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/because-of-you-families-feel-seen-and-supported</guid><description><![CDATA[ A Child&rsquo;s Search for BelongingImagine being 8 years old and realizing you look nothing like anyone in your family.You love them, but something still feels missing.For many adoptees, this quiet tension is hard to put into words. They feel caught between two worlds &mdash; loved deeply, yet unsure where they fully belong.One adult adoptee recently shared words that stuck with us:&ldquo;I often do not feel very connected with my adoptive mom (and family) and would have really benefited from  [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:256px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:20px;*margin-top:40px'><a><img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/published/img29.jpg?1762892539" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;display:block;"><strong><font color="#000000" size="5">A Child&rsquo;s Search for Belonging</font></strong><br /><font color="#000000">Imagine being 8 years old and realizing you look nothing like anyone in your family.<br />You love them, but something still feels missing.</font><br /><font color="#000000">For many adoptees, this quiet tension is hard to put into words. They feel caught between two worlds &mdash; loved deeply, yet unsure where they fully belong.</font><br /><br /><font color="#000000">One adult adoptee recently shared words that stuck with us:<br /><em>&ldquo;I often do not feel very connected with my adoptive mom (and family) and would have really benefited from<br /> having more of a support system.&rdquo;</em></font><br /><br /><font color="#000000"><strong><font size="5">&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Finding a Place to Belong</font></strong></font><br /><font color="#000000">Now imagine discovering a place where that child &mdash; and their parents &mdash; can find exactly that support. <br />A place where <strong>kids meet others who share their experience</strong>, where <strong>parents learn tools</strong> to build stronger emotional connections, and where everyone feels like they finally <strong>belong</strong>.</font><br /><font color="#000000">When this same adoptee learned about LoveMoves.Us, she said something that touched our hearts:<br /><br /><strong>&ldquo;I absolutely love what you guys do, and I wish I knew about your organization sooner. I would have loved to have grown up with a community of others with adoptive children.&rdquo;</strong></font><br /><br /><font color="#000000">Those words remind us why this work matters &mdash; and why <strong>you</strong>, our supporters, are so essential.<br /><br /><strong><font size="5">The Difference You Make</font></strong></font><br /><font color="#000000">Because of <strong>your generosity</strong>, children who once felt unseen now feel understood.<br />Parents who once felt overwhelmed now find <strong>connection, strength, and hope</strong>.<br />Families who wondered if they could keep going now have a <strong>community to lean on</strong>.<br /></font><br /><strong><font color="#c72127">You&rsquo;ll never meet every child whose life you&rsquo;ve touched, but your kindness is shaping their stories every day.<br />When a child finally feels safe, known, and accepted&hellip; when a parent breathes easier because they&rsquo;ve found the support they needed&hellip; when a family stays together instead of giving up &mdash; that&rsquo;s because of you.</font></strong><br /><br /><strong style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><font size="5">Belonging. Healing. Hope.</font></strong><br /><font color="#000000">Your giving makes <strong><em>belonging</em> </strong>possible.<br />It makes <em><strong>laughter</strong> and <strong>healing</strong></em> possible.<br />It makes<strong> <em>hope</em></strong> possible.</font><br /><font color="#000000">From all of us at LoveMoves.Us &mdash; and from every family you&rsquo;ve helped &mdash; <strong>thank you</strong>.<br />You didn&rsquo;t just give; you <strong>showed up</strong> for families who needed you most.</font><br /><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who Do You Call at Midnight?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/who-do-you-call-at-midnight]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/who-do-you-call-at-midnight#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2025 19:43:56 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/who-do-you-call-at-midnight</guid><description><![CDATA[If you&rsquo;ve ever been to Denver, you know the sun shines differently there &mdash; bright, dry, and surrounded by the beauty of the mountains. I was recently in Denver helping my parents with work on their new house. My sisters and I spent four days doing manual labor, but honestly? It was full of laughter, fun, and the kind of connection that makes family time so meaningful.That experience was a stark contrast to what one of our families faced back home.A Midnight EmergencyImagine this: it& [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><font size="4" color="#2a2a2a">If you&rsquo;ve ever been to Denver, you know the sun shines differently there &mdash; bright, dry, and surrounded by the beauty of the mountains. I was recently in Denver helping my parents with work on their new house. My sisters and I spent four days doing manual labor, but honestly? It was full of laughter, fun, and the kind of connection that makes family time so meaningful.<br /><br />That experience was a stark contrast to what one of our families faced back home.<br /><br /><strong>A Midnight Emergency</strong><br />Imagine this: it&rsquo;s dark, it&rsquo;s late,&nbsp;<span>and you&rsquo;re exhausted. Your child is raging and violent. A call to 911. An ambulance ride to the hospital. Hours sitting alone, overwhelmed, wondering if anyone understands what you&rsquo;re going through.</span><br /><br /><strong>Unless&hellip;</strong><br /><br />You have a community that cares. People who don&rsquo;t just say they&rsquo;ll pray, but actually get in the car and come sit with you at the hospital. People who understand. People who show up.<br /><br />That&rsquo;s what it means when<em> <strong>Love Moves Us</strong></em>.<br /><br /><strong>What Your Support Makes Possible</strong><br />Your&nbsp;generosity provides this kind of community for families who foster and adopt. Families facing trauma and children who need attachment and trust don&rsquo;t have to walk the journey alone.<br /><br />This summer alone, your support made possible:</font><ul><li><font size="4" color="#2a2a2a">Parents&rsquo; Night Out</font></li><li><font size="4" color="#2a2a2a">Ice cream for 200 foster parents and children</font></li><li><font size="4" color="#2a2a2a">A roller skating pizza party</font></li><li><font size="4" color="#2a2a2a">A baseball game with fireworks and a hot dog dinner</font></li><li><font size="4" color="#2a2a2a">A beach day cookout with gifts for every family</font></li><li><font size="4" color="#2a2a2a">Five pool days filled with sun, joy, and laughter</font></li><li><font size="4" color="#2a2a2a">Over $2,500 raised for a family who lost their home to fire</font></li></ul><font color="#2a2a2a"><br /><strong><font size="4">What&rsquo;s Next: Our Biggest Step Yet</font></strong><br /><span>We believe every family should have someone they can call or text at midnight &mdash; and never face these challenges alone. To make that possible, we&rsquo;re taking the biggest step in our history: hiring a </span><strong>full-time program director</strong><span>.</span><br /><br />This role will help us expand our reach, launch new groups, partner with churches and businesses, and care for volunteer leaders. We&rsquo;re also planning for a part-time admin, a volunteer coordinator, and a social media manager to strengthen this growing movement.<br /><br /><strong><font size="4">How You Can Help</font></strong><br />Expanding our team is a big investment, but it&rsquo;s the next step in meeting the needs of children and families longing for community and support.<br /><br />Your generosity makes such a difference and changes lives forever. Your generosity makes such a difference. Would you consider giving &mdash; one-time or monthly &mdash; to help support our expansion into serving more children and families?&nbsp;<br /><br /><span>Together, we can expand our reach into new areas and ensure no family ever has to face midnight alone.</span><br /><br /></font><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[From Surviving to Thriving: The Bell Family’s New Chapter]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/from-surviving-to-thriving-the-bell-familys-new-chapter]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/from-surviving-to-thriving-the-bell-familys-new-chapter#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2025 19:27:05 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/from-surviving-to-thriving-the-bell-familys-new-chapter</guid><description><![CDATA[ Do you want to hear some truly amazing news?Last April, we shared the Bell family's story&mdash;a raw, honest glimpse into the reality of fostering. What we love most about their journey is how it represents the transformation that can happen when families dive headfirst into the community, encouragement, and support that LoveMoves.Us provides.This past February, Rich and Elizabeth shared their story at our Hearts for Hope Gala. It was powerful then, and their story continues, as stories do.&#8 [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:20px;*margin-top:40px'><a><img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/editor/picture1.jpg?1746480873" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;display:block;"><br /><font color="#000000"><strong>Do you want to hear some truly amazing news?</strong><br />Last April, we shared the Bell family's story&mdash;a raw, honest glimpse into the reality of fostering. What we love most about their journey is how it represents the transformation that can happen when families dive headfirst into the community, encouragement, and support that LoveMoves.Us provides.<br /><br />This past February, Rich and Elizabeth shared their story at our Hearts for Hope Gala. It was powerful then, and their story continues, as stories do.<br />&#8203;<br />When Rich and Elizabeth welcomed two young boys into their home in October 2022, life quickly spiraled into, as Rich described, &ldquo;all-out mayhem all the time.&rdquo;<br /><br /><strong>Elizabeth explains:</strong><br />&ldquo;We were exhausted and sick. Our kids were reacting explosively to even the simplest &lsquo;no.&rsquo; Hours-long screaming, crying fits with kids throwing things, overturning furniture, and physically threatening everyone in the house were daily occurrences, many times more than once a day.&nbsp;<em><strong>Our whole family was in &lsquo;crisis mode&rsquo; all the time.</strong>&rdquo;<br />The phone calls from school and daycare were constant. Their two-year-old was nearly placed on a behavior<br />&#8203; improvement plan&mdash;just for not staying quiet during nap time.</em><br />&ldquo;In all honesty, we were really questioning our decision, thinking we were the worst parents and wondering how and if we were ever going to do this long term. We didn&rsquo;t know what to do or how to help our kids.&rdquo;<br />In desperation, Elizabeth turned to Google and searched for foster support groups.<br />That&rsquo;s when they discovered LoveMoves.Us.<br />&ldquo;We attended our first Family Gathering in January 2023. As we were driving home that night, I cried from relief,<br />and the boys fell asleep peacefully in the back seat.&rdquo;<br /><br /><strong>From that moment on, everything started to change.</strong><br />The Bells attended our <em>Cultivate Connection</em> training last January and began to intentionally connect with their kids and advocate for them. When their second grader was at risk of suspension, Rich and Elizabeth worked with the school to help staff understand the impact of trauma and how to respond with compassion.<br />&ldquo;I am happy to say that we finalized guardianship of the boys in November, and we are THRIVING as a family. We have only gotten ONE phone call from school all year!&rdquo;<br /><br /><strong>This is what happens when families get the support they need.</strong><br />&ldquo;I can confidently say that our family would not be in this place without LoveMoves.Us. We are forever grateful for the love, support, and education that we&rsquo;ve gotten.&rdquo;<br />That&rsquo;s what it&rsquo;s all about.<br />When you give, this is the difference you&rsquo;re making.<br />As summer approaches, giving tends to go down&mdash;but the needs of families who foster and adopt don&rsquo;t. Would you consider joining our monthly giving program to ensure they&rsquo;re supported year-round?<br />&ldquo;We are so grateful for this ministry and what it has done for our family.&rdquo;<br />&ndash; Rich &amp; Elizabeth Bell</font></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Jess & Ryan's Story]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/jesss-story]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/jesss-story#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2025 20:29:25 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/jesss-story</guid><description><![CDATA[For LoveMoves.UsIt&rsquo;s always about&nbsp;ONE.&#8203;Andy Stanley said,&nbsp;&ldquo;Do for ONE, what you wish you could do for everyone.&rdquo;&nbsp;&#8203;That&rsquo;s been a motto for LoveMoves.Us from the very beginning.   Listen to how&nbsp;ONE&nbsp;family has been impacted this past year.&nbsp;&ldquo;Two years ago I took a lot of naps. I read lots of books for&nbsp;fun. I took girl's trips with friends. I bought ridiculousamounts of toys and treats for my dogs. My husbandRyan &amp; I als [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">For LoveMoves.Us</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">It&rsquo;s always about&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">ONE</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">.<br /><br />&#8203;Andy Stanley said,&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">&ldquo;Do for ONE, what you wish you could do for everyone</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">.&rdquo;&nbsp;<br />&#8203;</span></span><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">That&rsquo;s been a motto for LoveMoves.Us from the very beginning.</span></span></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:15px;*margin-top:30px'><a><img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/editor/jessneedham2edited.jpg?1739402359" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;display:block;"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Listen to how&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">ONE</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;family has been impacted this past year.&nbsp;<br /><br />&ldquo;Two years ago I took a lot of naps. I read lots of books for<br />&nbsp;fun. I took girl's trips with friends. I bought ridiculous<br />amounts of toys and treats for my dogs. My husband<br />Ryan &amp; I also traveled, we got massages, and we ate out, a lot.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Every time I would see these babies a family at our church<br />had taken in through foster care, I would think to myself,</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700"><em>&ldquo;We should be doing this&rdquo;</em>.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">My husband usually responds to my ideas with an immediate "No!"&hellip;until<br />I said,&nbsp;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">"We should probably take in some children."&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">That time,&nbsp;</span><u><em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">that &#8203;</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">one</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;time, he said yes</span></em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">.&nbsp;</span></u>&#8203;<br /><br />&#8203;<span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Saying &ldquo;Yes&rdquo; to 6 children means&nbsp;</span><em><u><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">we have had to say a lot of "No's"</span></u></em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">.&nbsp; No to fun girls&rsquo; trips. No to overseas romantic getaways. No to eating out on a regular basis.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700"><em>People have also said "No" to us</em>.</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><em><u><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Family has become distant</span></u></em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">, more so with each child we took into the home.&nbsp; They do not really understand why we took in so many or why it&nbsp;is so hard to&nbsp;parent them.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Two come from a drug den, two from domestic&nbsp;violence and two from neglect. I have 6 kids with very different needs, and I cannot meet all of them.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp;I am frustrated because "normal" parenting tips do not work with my kids. Actually, they can make things worse.&nbsp; Timeouts make them feel isolated and rejected. You can't spank a kid who comes from domestic violence.&nbsp;<br /><em>&#8203;</em></span><em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">You can't love the trauma out of a child</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span></em></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">So, what do you do?</span></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-highlight" href="javascript:;" > <span class="wsite-button-inner"><em>"We could not do this without the support and education provided by LoveMoves.Us" - Jess</em></span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">From the moment we came to LoveMoves.Us, we were welcomed <em>with the ope</em>n arms by parents who were experiencing many of the same <em>struggles were</em>. </span><em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">We felt heard and understood</span></em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">. We found relief in the fact we are not alone in our insecurities and felt failures in this journey.</span></span><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">The monthly check-ins we get with "Love Moves Us" </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><em><u>help us to stay the course when we feel like we can't keep going</u></em>.</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">&nbsp; We look forward to these family dinners, they are therapy, education and respite all in one.</span></span></div>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-highlight" href="javascript:;" > <span class="wsite-button-inner">"I hope you know that when you support Love Moves Us, it is invaluable<br />&#8203; to us as Foster and Adoptive Parents."</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><em><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">We need support, and </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">what you give, no matter the amount or the time</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">, it is felt, and it is appreciated.&nbsp;<br />&#8203; </span><u><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">When you donate, I can be educated.&nbsp;</span></u></span></em><br /><em><u>&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;</u></em><br /><span><em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">When you support LoveMoves.Us</span></em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">,<em> I can turn my thoughts from hopeless to hopeful and I can chase down the runaway child and turn the screams into laughter.&rdquo; ~ Jess</em></span></span><br /><br /></div>  <div><div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div> <hr class="styled-hr" style="width:100%;"></hr> <div style="height: 20px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;"></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="4"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">But LoveMoves.Us has impacted way more than just </span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">ONE</span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">.</span></span><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">We&rsquo;ve impacted </span><u><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700"><em>hundreds of childre</em>n</span></u><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">, and other parents like Jess.</span></span></font></div>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-highlight" href="javascript:;" > <span class="wsite-button-inner"><u>&#8203;Will you join us in the fight for the hearts of children?&nbsp;</u></span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:182px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:20px;*margin-top:40px'><a><img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/published/jessneedham1editedthree.jpg?1739398659" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Giving today will help us expand our staff and bring LoveMoves.Us&rsquo; impact to new areas, serving more children and<br />&#8203;more families.</span></span><ul><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>More children being loved on and learning new developmental skills.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>More parents learning the best ways to care for their kids, and themselves.</span></span></li><li style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span>More fun and encouraging events to provide a supportive community.</span></span></li></ul> <span>&#8203;</span><br /><em><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight:700">&ldquo;Thank you for pouring into our family, for supporting us in the best way you can. Thank you for helping us to change these children's lives as they change ours.&rdquo; ~ Jess</span></em><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />&#8203;<br />&#8203;<br />&#8203;<br /><br /><br />&#8203;</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why would you suspend a second grader from school?]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/why-would-you-suspend-a-second-grader-from-school]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/why-would-you-suspend-a-second-grader-from-school#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2024 17:33:41 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/why-would-you-suspend-a-second-grader-from-school</guid><description><![CDATA[ &#8203;What would have to happen? You would think it would have to be pretty severe &ndash; even life-threatening, perhaps.Rich and Elizabeth&nbsp;have been dealing with this&nbsp;every week&nbsp;throughout the entire school year.They have worked hard to understand what their son needs and how to help him heal from a difficult past.They have learned how to quell difficult behaviors of aggression, defiance, and rage.Unfortunately, the school, hasn&rsquo;t been open to what this little guy needs. [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/lmufamily_orig.png' rel='lightbox' onclick='if (!lightboxLoaded) return false'><img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/editor/lmufamily.png?1715708300" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 20px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="We haven't been suspended since we were able to advocate for him and got the help we needed!" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><span>&#8203;</span><font color="#2a2a2a">What would have to happen? You would think it would have to be pretty severe &ndash; even life-threatening, perhaps.<br /><br /><strong>Rich and Elizabeth</strong>&nbsp;<strong>have been dealing with this&nbsp;<em><u>every week</u></em>&nbsp;throughout the entire school year.</strong><br /><br />They have worked hard to understand what their son needs and how to help him heal from a difficult past.<br /><br /><u>They have learned how to quell difficult behaviors of aggression, defiance, and rage.</u><br /><br />Unfortunately, the school, hasn&rsquo;t been open to what this little guy needs. They have tried the same approach over and over with the same results.<br /><br /><em><u>The school&rsquo;s approach: Authoritarian-style discipline resulting in explosive behavior leading them to punish the child.<br />&#8203;</u></em><br />It&rsquo;s been a repetitive cycle.</font></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><strong><font color="#3f3f3f">Rich and Elizabeth attended our 9-week Cultivate Connection parenting class from January through March.&nbsp; In this class they learned principles and strategies to help their son build trust, feel safe and to foster connection.</font></strong>&#8203;</div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><em><font color="#c23b3b">&ldquo;Without Cultivate Connection we wouldn't have even known how describe the causes of our son's behavior. But the class and the support from others really helped us to be strong advocates for providing the supports he needed rather than allowing the school to try to find "punishments" that he would respond to.&rdquo;</font></em></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font color="#2a2a2a"><br />&#8203;When you give to LoveMoves.Us, you provide the training to give the Bells and many other families actionable strategies to build the trust and attachment their kids desperately need.</font></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><u><font color="#2a2a2a">But some families need more intensive support and therapy.</font></u><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong style="">We&rsquo;ve partnered with Holt International to do a 3-day weekend camp</strong> based on T.B.R.I.&copy; (Trust-Based Relational Intervention) that integrates the latest in neuroscience, sensory processing, and attachment to meet the needs of children.<br />The cost for such a therapeutic-rich environment is often prohibitive for many families who need such help.&nbsp;</font><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><font color="#c23b3b"><strong>We&rsquo;re sponsoring two families to be able to attend this T.B.R.I. Camp! </strong><br /><strong><u>$1,400 will provide scholarships for two families to attend this much-needed TBRI weekend intensive camp, and you can help!</u></strong></font><br /><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font color="#2a2a2a">Gifts of time and finances are essential to serving and supporting so many families. Summer months tend to see a dip in giving but we remain steadfast in giving generously to families who foster or adopt.<br /><br /><em>&ldquo;<u>We are so grateful for this ministry and what it has done for our family.</u>&rdquo;</em><br /><em>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &ndash; Rich &amp; Elizabeth Bell</em></font><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><strong><u><font color="#c23b3b">If you would you give a special gift to send two families, like the Bells, to a TBRI weekend intensive camp with equine therapy, you can give here.</font></u></strong><br /><br /></div>  <div style="text-align:center;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-small wsite-button-highlight" href="https://www.lovemoves.us/donate.html" target="_blank"> <span class="wsite-button-inner">GIVE HERE</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[What I wish every foster or adoptive parent knew.]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/what-i-wish-every-foster-or-adoptive-parent-knew]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/what-i-wish-every-foster-or-adoptive-parent-knew#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 14 Sep 2023 15:40:21 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/what-i-wish-every-foster-or-adoptive-parent-knew</guid><description><![CDATA[If you are a parent who decided to foster or adopt a child, you are part of my tribe of favorite people. Because of your decision to care for a child who isn&rsquo;t biologically yours, you face a lot of unique challenges.&nbsp;That's why LoveMoves.Us exists.&nbsp;Family Gatherings provide you with community, encouragement, and support. They offer shared experience, and provide guidance and tools to help you with your parenting.&nbsp;But there is one critical aspect that tends to get overlooked. [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph">If you are a parent who decided to foster or adopt a child, you are part of my tribe of favorite people. Because of your decision to care for a child who isn&rsquo;t biologically yours, you face a lot of unique challenges.&nbsp;<br /><br />That's why LoveMoves.Us exists.&nbsp;<br /><br />Family Gatherings provide you with community, encouragement, and support. They offer shared experience, and provide guidance and tools to help you with your parenting.&nbsp;<br /><br />But there is one critical aspect that tends to get overlooked.&nbsp;<strong>Family Gatherings aren&rsquo;t just for you.&nbsp;</strong><br /><br />They&rsquo;re not just for when you are in crisis.&nbsp;<br />They&rsquo;re not just for when you need help.&nbsp;<br />They&rsquo;re not just for finding community.<br /><br /><u><strong>Don&rsquo;t underestimate the impact of&nbsp;Family Gatherings on your children's well-being.</strong></u><br /><br />I recently spoke with a transracial adoptee who received her doctorate in anthropology and has used her experience and voice to help other parents and organizations understand the adoptee perspective. She offers insight and consults on how we can be better parents to adoptees.&nbsp;<br /><br />She told me that&nbsp;<strong>Family Gatherings are&nbsp;vital for children</strong>&nbsp;who have been in foster care or were adopted. Here's why:<ol><li><strong>Attachment and Trust</strong>: Changes in caregivers and environments can disrupt a child's ability to form secure attachments. This is true for many children who were adopted at birth also. This can lead to difficulties in trusting others, forming healthy relationships, and regulating emotions. Family Gatherings offer a safe community that teaches parents how to form attachment with their children to build trust, and teaches children how to regulate their emotions.&nbsp;</li><li><strong>Identity and Self-Esteem</strong>: Growing up in a non-traditional family, many children wrestle with their identity impacting their self-esteem. At Family Gatherings, children find friends, see families like theirs, other kids of the same ethnicity, and others who are adopted or in foster care, assuring them they are not the only ones. When they are able to build a strong sense of identity, it builds their self-esteem.</li><li><strong>Emotional Support and Behavioral Struggles</strong>: The trauma of being removed from their biological families and experiencing struggles with identity, loss, and trauma can lead to emotional and behavioral challenges. Children might exhibit anger, anxiety, depression, or exhibit acting-out behaviors because they haven&rsquo;t learned how to get their needs met in healthy, positive ways. Getting the right tools as a parent, normalizing your child&rsquo;s experience, and teaching them ways to regulate their emotions helps to ease behavioral issues. When they learn that a safe adult will meet their needs, behaviors start to lessen.</li><li><strong>Loss and Grief</strong>: Children who are adopted or in foster care often feel a strong sense of loss, not only of their biological families but also of relationships, familiar surroundings, and routines. This ongoing sense of loss and grief can impact their emotional well-being. Finding a community of others who experience these things normalizes their experience. This becomes increasingly important as the child gets older - particularly around ages 11-14.</li><li><strong>Normalization and Belonging:</strong>&nbsp;Growing up in non-traditional family settings, many children question their identity and sense of belonging. By attending Family Gatherings, you contribute to creating a sense of normalcy for your children. As you gain insights into strategies that work, children witness the unity and strength within the community, which reassures them that they are not alone on this journey.&nbsp;</li></ol><br />Being a part of Family Gatherings is a strong support for parents. But Family Gatherings help children foster a strong sense of identity, normalize their experience, and help them cope with grief and loss in healthy ways.&nbsp;<br /><br />By participating in Family Gatherings, you demonstrate your commitment to the holistic well-being of your families&hellip;<strong>and you just might encourage or help another family</strong>&nbsp;<em><u>even when you don&rsquo;t feel like you need the support.</u></em>&nbsp;<br /><br />Your journey of foster and adoptive parenting is one that requires trauma-informed, attachment-based, patient, empathetic, almost-therapeutic parenting; and being a part of a community that encourages you in this helps you and your children all the more.<br /><br />If you haven't been a part of LoveMoves.Us Family Gatherings, I encourage you to check one out, or start one in your area. Your active involvement will undoubtedly play a vital role in shaping brighter futures for our children.<br /><br />Advocating for our children,<br /><br />Jason Bentsen</div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Chicago, we have a problem.]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/chicago-we-have-a-problem]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/chicago-we-have-a-problem#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 18 Aug 2023 20:00:45 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/chicago-we-have-a-problem</guid><description><![CDATA[        &#8203;The last several months have demonstrated the need for families who foster or&nbsp;adopt to find community, encouragement, and support.&nbsp;Nearly 130 people&nbsp;have&nbsp;signed up to attend the Family Gathering at&nbsp;just the Joliet location!&nbsp;Families need support&nbsp;that comes in the&nbsp;form of practical parenting skills, quality&nbsp;adoption-competent therapy, respite care (babysitting),&nbsp;and a community who understands&nbsp;the unique challenges they face.&n [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/published/july-newletter-pic.jpg?1692389067" alt="Picture" style="width:852;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:958px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:20px;*margin-top:40px'><a><img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/published/july-newletter-pic-2.jpg?1692389738" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="display:block;"><font color="#2a2a2a">&#8203;<span>The last several months have demonstrated the need for families who foster or<strong>&nbsp;</strong>adopt to find community, encouragement, and support.&nbsp;</span><br /><span><strong>N</strong><strong>early 130 people&nbsp;</strong>have<strong>&nbsp;</strong>signed up to attend the Family Gathering at<strong>&nbsp;<em><u>just the Joliet location!&nbsp;</u></em></strong></span><br /><span>Families need support<strong>&nbsp;</strong>that comes in the<strong>&nbsp;</strong>form of practical parenting skills, quality<strong>&nbsp;</strong>adoption-competent therapy, respite care (babysitting)<strong>,</strong>&nbsp;and a community who understands<strong>&nbsp;</strong>the unique challenges they face.&nbsp;</span><br /><span>LoveMoves.Us provides the community and parent<strong>&nbsp;</strong>training families need<strong>.</strong></span></font><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(199, 33, 39)"><strong>So what's next?</strong></span><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">A&nbsp;<strong>new therapy program</strong>&nbsp;has already been piloted. It began this past November. An adoption-competent therapist who understands complex developmental trauma was contracted to commute to the home of one family to provide weekly therapy for the entire family.<br /><strong>This pilot program was funded $7,400 by one generous dono</strong>r who understands the complexity of parenting a child who has been adopted and believes in the transformation that can happen when a family has access to quality therapy.<strong>&nbsp;</strong></font><br /><br /><span><span style="color:rgb(199, 33, 39)"><strong>MORE FAMILIES NEED THIS KIND OF CARE &amp; SUPPORT.</strong></span></span><br /><br /><font color="#2a2a2a"><strong>A church in Plainfield gave the gift of a Parents&rsquo; Night Out in June.</strong><br /><br />Every family who was able to attend expressed their gratitude for this wonderful service that provided a break &amp; respite care for them. The children had a great time and expressed their gratitude for the fun they had. They also expressed their sadness when the night was over.&nbsp;<br />Getting volunteers for this was no easy task. Volunteers are harder and harder to come by. But<strong>&nbsp;<u><em>the impact you can make &amp; fulfillment you receive from serving a few hours a month is often underestimated.</em></u></strong></font><br /><strong style="color:rgb(199, 33, 39)">MORE FAMILIES NEED THIS KIND OF CARE &amp; SUPPORT.</strong><br /><font color="#2a2a2a">In the past few weeks I&rsquo;ve personally encountered families who are struggling.</font><ul style="color:rgb(34, 34, 34)"><li>Joe - a child with severe autism, limited speech and violent rages.<strong>&nbsp;</strong></li><li>Eli -&nbsp;a teenager withdrawing &amp; refusing all meds, therapy, and school.&nbsp;</li><li>Tina -&nbsp;a pre-teen with ADHD, severe anxiety, complex genetics &amp; below developmental cognitive functioning greatly impacting &amp; limiting her social life.</li></ul> <span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><strong><span><span style="color:rgb(199, 33, 39)"><u><em>These kids are precious, wonderful, incredible kids who are battling complex issues and desperately trying to overcome cognitive, emotional, and social struggles.</em></u></span></span></strong><br /><br />LoveMoves.Us provides parents with practical tools to help them parent their child in a way that equips them to overcome the challenges they face.<strong>&nbsp;</strong></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><strong>The way forward is through creating a culture of care, informed on complex developmental trauma, equipped with tools to care for kids that builds trust, drives connection and eliminates fear.</strong></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><u><em>Equipping several parents, social workers &amp; therapists will expand LoveMoves.Us programs, and impact hundreds more families. It&rsquo;s going to be a big investment, but it will be worth it.&nbsp;</em></u></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">Will you join in fighting for the hearts of children &amp; equipping their families to flourish?</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><span><span style="color:rgb(199, 33, 39)"><strong>WILL YOU GIVE TO PROVIDE THE INVESTMENT NEEDED!</strong></span></span></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><em>Ongoing generosity will provide the training for parents, social workers and therapists to equip and support parents caring for vulnerable children.</em><br /><br />Small financial investments will change the lives of children. It will bring welcome relief to a family. It will support equip and encourage parents to give their child what they need<strong>.&nbsp;</strong></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><strong>Would you give a special gift or become a monthly partner by giving $10 or $20 a month?</strong></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)">You would become part of the army of support - making sure children and families find community, encouragement, and support!</span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Supporting Families on #GivingTuesday.]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/supporting-families-on-givingtuesday]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/supporting-families-on-givingtuesday#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2022 19:39:34 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.lovemoves.us/blog/supporting-families-on-givingtuesday</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						  &#8203;Why is it important to create a community for people who foster or adopt to find encouragement and support?Kim &amp; Dirk recently drove more than an hour to get to one of our Family Gatherings. Being working parents with Kim working overnights is already a challenge.  &nbsp;Add in 3 kids &ndash; ages 3, 2 and 1 (1 in foster care), no family in the area to help, and parenting becomes even more challenging.&nbsp;They have looked to their church to help with fin [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Why is it important to create a community for people who foster or adopt to find encouragement and support?<br /><br /><strong><em>Kim &amp; Dirk recently drove more than an hour </em></strong>to get to one of our Family Gatherings. Being working parents with Kim working overnights is already a challenge.</div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><span>&nbsp;</span><span>Add in 3 kids &ndash; ages 3, 2 and 1 (1 in foster care), no family in the area to help, and parenting becomes even more challenging.</span><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><span>They have looked to their church to help with finding trustworthy, reliable people to help care for their children; but as is often the case, most people pat them on the&nbsp;</span></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.lovemoves.us/uploads/8/3/4/9/83495662/published/kate-daniel.jpg?1668627773" alt="Picture" style="width:453;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>back and tell them they are &ldquo;heroes&rdquo; or &ldquo;so amazing&rdquo; without offering practical support.</span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><em><font color="#c72127">&ldquo;Thank you guys so much for all you do. We really do enjoy the gatherings and leave feeling seen and cared for. It really does mean a lot.&rdquo; ~ Kim</font></em><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>Kim &amp; Dirk aren&rsquo;t the only family who travel a great distance to attend Family Gatherings. There are multiple families who do this. That&rsquo;s because they desperately need to be around other people who understand the challenges they face.</span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><font color="#c72127"><strong style="">YOUR IMPACT</strong><br />When you give to LoveMoves.Us, you create that space for people to gather. You create a place where adoption and foster care are <em style=""><u>normalized</u></em> &ndash; where no one blinks twice at the fact that you are black, and your parents are white.</font><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><em>Supporting LoveMoves.Us helps children build attachment and trust&nbsp;</em><em>- the number one predictor of success later in life!</em><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><font color="#c72127">Your giving provides a place for kids to build a healthy identity as they wrestle through their story during adolescence. You give parents a place to get to know other parents who are fostering or have adopted<em><u> to learn what their children need and how to navigate difficult conversations.<br /><br />&#8203;</u></em></font><span>One donor recently told me&nbsp;</span><strong><em>&ldquo;The work you&rsquo;re doing is so important.&rdquo;</em></strong><font color="#c72127"><em></em></font><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">Having a brother and husband who were adopted, she knows the importance of support for adoptees and their families. Unfortunately, she is now separated from her husband, in part, due to unprocessed thoughts and feelings about his adoption.<br /></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><strong>A BRAND-NEW THERAPY PROGRAM</strong></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>Thanks to a generous donor, LoveMoves.Us is piloting a new program with a licensed, adoption competent, complex-developmental trauma-informed therapist who will be travelling to a family&rsquo;s home to provide in-home therapy once per week!</span><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><span>This meets one of the biggest needs of all the families we serve! The mother in the family who will be receiving these services said,&nbsp;</span><strong><em><u>&ldquo;This is an answer to prayer! I&rsquo;m going to cry!&rdquo;</u></em></strong></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><strong>WHAT&rsquo;S NEXT</strong></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>With families willing to travel more than an hour to attend Family Gatherings, they are needed far and wide!</span><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><span>We&rsquo;re exploring opportunities to serve and support families through some new paradigms:</span><br /><span>&#9679;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Anchor Sites all over Chicagoland</span><br /><span>&#9679;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Piloting a Community Center to go deep in serving regional needs</span><br /><span>&#9679;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Providing a simple, customizable blueprint to starting more Family Gatherings</span><br /><span>&#9679;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Partnering with therapists to serve children at Family Gatherings</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title" style="text-align:center;"><strong style="color:rgb(199, 33, 39)">$35,000 IN DONATIONS WILL BE MATCHED</strong><br /><strong style="color:rgb(199, 33, 39)">by a generous donor on #GivingTuesday, November 29th</strong></h2>  <div class="paragraph">Giving a generous gift will help to expand LoveMoves.Us into new communities, reaching hundreds more families and impacting thousands of children&rsquo;s lives!<br />&nbsp;<br />Will you be a part of the #GivingTuesday $35,000 match? Your gift will bring LoveMoves.Us&rsquo; community, encouragement, and support to more families like Kim and Dirk&rsquo;s and the hundreds of families we serve.<br /><br />Together for children,<br /><br />&#8203;Jason<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div style="text-align:right;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-highlight" href="https://www.lovemoves.us/givingtuesday.html" > <span class="wsite-button-inner">LEARN MORE</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div style="text-align:left;"><div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div> <a class="wsite-button wsite-button-large wsite-button-highlight" href="https://www.lovemoves.us/donate.html" > <span class="wsite-button-inner">GIVE HERE</span> </a> <div style="height: 10px; overflow: hidden;"></div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>